It might be mysterious midnight phone calls that he only answers in private or it might be your intuition that something isn't quite right that keeps gouging you. It could be the way that he doesn't seem to be present and engaged when he's with you anymore; it often seems like his mind is a million miles away. 

The signs that your husband is cheating and lying could be very subtle. Or, they could be more obvious. If you know for certain that your husband is having an affair, you might be trying to decide what move to make next.

If you aren't sure if he's cheating, but you feel suspicious, you also have decisions to make. Focus in on what you know.
Our first advice to you is to concentrate on yourself and your relationship. Try not to compare what happened (or what you suspect) in your relationship with the experiences of others.

What's going on in someone else's relationship may be similar to yours, but it's not the same. Your energy is better spent attending to you and the future you want to create.

If you have to turn off the tv or politely change the subject of conversation in order to stop talking and thinking about the infidelity involving other couples, do so.

Focus in on what you know and on what you need to find out. Rely mainly on information and sources that are trustworthy to you.

If you know for sure that your man has had (or is having) an affair, you might still have questions that you'd like to have answered as you decide whether you will stay or go.

We know, this can be a very scary and unnerving time. Do whatever you can to stay clear and tuned in to you. The next best step can then be more easily determined.

If you'd like to know other specific strategies and ideas for getting the relationship answers you are looking for, check out http://www.IsYourManALiar.com/Program

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