Justine is just not an athlete, though now more than ever she wishes that she were She believes that her husband Trey is having an emotional affair with a female teammate on his co-ed soccer team.
It seems to Justine that if she were only an athlete, this never would have happened. Her man would not be preferring to spend his time with his female soccer buddy instead of with her.
Do you believe that your boyfriend or husband is having an emotional affair with another woman?
Perhaps you know very well who this other woman is...but you aren't completely sure and you don't know what to do about it.
It could be that you aren't certain that your partner is having an emotional affair, but you can tell that something is amiss in your relationship.
And it seems that SHE is the cause.
Let's back up for a minute...
An emotional affair can be just as damaging to trust and your relationship as any other kind of affair. It's true, there might not be sexual interaction going on, but the depth of emotional intimacy can feel like a betrayal to you.
If you're not sure whether he's actually having an affair or not, check out these steps to finding out for sure-- http://www.IsYourManALiar.com
It could be that you aren't certain that your partner is having an emotional affair, but you can tell that something is amiss in your relationship.
And it seems that SHE is the cause.
Let's back up for a minute...
An emotional affair can be just as damaging to trust and your relationship as any other kind of affair. It's true, there might not be sexual interaction going on, but the depth of emotional intimacy can feel like a betrayal to you.
If you're not sure whether he's actually having an affair or not, check out these steps to finding out for sure-- http://www.IsYourManALiar.com
There are many signs of an emotional affair.
Here are just a few:
*Your man is secretive about his conversations and meetings (online or in person) with her.
Here are just a few:
*Your man is secretive about his conversations and meetings (online or in person) with her.
*He seems to spend more time with her than with you; again, this might be over the phone or computer or face-to-face.
*He shares private thoughts and feelings with her that he may not even share with you.
Look at your relationship, instead of theirs.
It can be tempting to focus in on the ways that your man is (or appears to be) interacting with this other woman. In fact, you can spend a whole lot of time worrying and getting upset about what you think is going on.
We advise you to place most of your attention on the way that you and your partner are interacting and less on how he seems to be with this other woman.
Do you feel disconnected from your man?
How do the two of you tend to communicate?
How often do you share with one another and what do you tend to share about?
What would you like your relationship to be like?
Answer these questions and take some steps toward your man instead of away from him. Start focusing on your relationship and how you can revitalize it.
Look at your relationship, instead of theirs.
It can be tempting to focus in on the ways that your man is (or appears to be) interacting with this other woman. In fact, you can spend a whole lot of time worrying and getting upset about what you think is going on.
We advise you to place most of your attention on the way that you and your partner are interacting and less on how he seems to be with this other woman.
Do you feel disconnected from your man?
How do the two of you tend to communicate?
How often do you share with one another and what do you tend to share about?
What would you like your relationship to be like?
Answer these questions and take some steps toward your man instead of away from him. Start focusing on your relationship and how you can revitalize it.
By Susie & Otto Collins
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