Janet had never felt so small and insignificant in all her life. She also had never felt so far apart from her husband Ray. For a period of months, it seemed that Ray would come home from work, eat a quick dinner and then log onto their computer where he'd sit for the rest of the evening.

Ray was defensive and secretive when Janet would ask him what he was doing and he would ignore her when she'd suggest that he do something with her.

It wasn't until Janet researched her husband's online activities and discovered that he'd been having an emotional affair, that things started turning around.

After finding out what was really going on, Janet was then able to stop feeling like a nag and she was able to start making decisions about her future.

Janet and Ray were able to turn their marriage around so that not only the emotional infidelity stopped, they are also starting to become close again.

Learn how to tell the difference...

If you feel left out and rejected because your partner seems to be spending most of his time and energy on someone else besides you, there is a chance that he's having an emotional affair.

If you have a history of being jealous, it can be confusing to know the difference between your jealous fears and possible signs of an emotional affair.

Practice breathing deeply and going into your center when you feel upset or worried. Don't discount how you are feeling or what you think you are seeing-- but don't take rash actions either.

Find ways to calm down and make choices about your next move with a clear head.

There are many signs of an emotional affair. A feeling of distance and evidence that he's spending a lot of time with (either in person or online) another person are two possible indicators.

An emotional affair leaves a trail, just as other forms of infidelity do. Like a detective, you can find reliable evidence so that you can know, once and for all, what's really going on.

You cannot save your marriage-- or attempt to turn your relationship around-- until you know, for sure, if infidelity is happening.
For a step-by-step plan so you can know for sure what's going on, visit http://www.IsYourManALiar.com

By Susie & Otto Collins

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