Advice for Couples

Joyce sits parked outside her husband's office because his car is at the auto mechanic's shop. Kris, her husband, asked her to pick him up at 5pm sharp and now it's 5:20-- she's irritated and tired of waiting. 

When Joyce gets off the elevator on the floor where her husband's office is located, she finds him talking closely with another woman. His hand caresses the other woman's check and it almost looks as if he will kiss her...then he sees Joyce. 

Kris turns toward Joyce, apologizes for making her wait and then walks to the elevator. He makes no mention of his exchange with this other woman and Joyce feels stunned and confused. 

Could she have seen what she thought she saw? 

Is he sleeping with her? 

You may not have walked in on your partner in a potentially compromising situation with another woman--or maybe you did. 

If you suspect that your mate is cheating, even if you don't know who the other woman is, you might be experiencing a jumble of emotions. 

Confusion, fear, worry, anger and shock may all be present within you. 

As much as you might not want to face the possibility of discovering that your man is having an affair, you probably do want to put a stop to your confusion. 

It's likely that you would like to be able to tell if what you saw, heard, or otherwise suspect is actually a sign that your partner is cheating. 

Inconsistencies tell all...

The place to start when you want to determine whether or not your suspicions that your man is cheating are true is with inconsistencies. 

We humans are relatively habitual and consistent beings. 

Pay attention to the way that your man tends to look, dress, care for himself (or not), communicate, have fun, exercise and generally act and then notice when he deviates from that norm. 

Of course, we all periodically change habits over time. We turn over a new leaf when it comes to exercise and we get make-overs. 

If your partner begins to act significantly different than he normally does and he hasn't shared with you a plausible reason why, take that as your signal to look deeper. 

There are other ways to find out if your suspicions are accurate. Visit http://isyourmanaliar.com/ to get the information you need to discover the truth.